Often, a new coach is so eager to work with a new client
that they don't take the time to properly peg, discern or label the
new client. As a result, 2-3 months can go by before the coach "catches
on" to some pretty important stuff about the client and the coaching
relationship that exists. Here are some questions to ask yourself
(and even of the client) before you start, or immediately after starting,
your coaching with them.
1. Does this person have enough emotional strength to make big
changes in their life right now?
2. Am I just another professional that this person is going to "go
through," yet not really benefit from?
3. Am I being related to as a coach, or a parent, friend, sibling,
colleague, consultant, librarian or "the solution to their problems?"
4. How much action are they taking to become more successful,
right away?
5. Am I concerned/worried/frustrated with this client?
6. What are the problems we are going to have in our relationship
within 6 months?
7. What is this client bringing out in ME?
8. How can I best serve this client?
9. What should our Number One focus be? Why?
10. What's the lever, trimtab, pivot point, access point, truth
that needs to be touched/dealt with immediately so that this client
can leap forward quickly?